Ibintu 7 Bikwereka Ko Umukobwa Agukunda By’Ukuri.

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Ifoto igaragaza umukobwa wicaye iruhande rw’umuhungu urwaye, amufashe akaboko mu buryo bwo kumwitaho.
Nadine yicaye hafi ya Kevin, amufashe akaboko mu gihe arwaye, agaragaza urukundo rwe rutavangiye.

“Ntibyoroshye kumenya niba umukobwa agukunda by’ukuri, keretse iyo ubibonye mu bikorwa bye, cyane cyane iyo ibintu bikomeye.”

Kevin yari amaze igihe yandikirana na Nadine kuri telefone. Batangiye bavugana bisanzwe, basangira amafoto n’ibitekerezo byoroshye. Ariko uko bagendaga bavugana, Kevin yatangiye kwibaza ati: “Ese uyu mukobwa arankunda by’ukuri, cyangwa arimo gukina gusa?”

Yari yarigeze gukundana inshuro nyinshi, ariko bikarangira bitamuhiriye. Ubu yashakaga kumenya neza niba koko Nadine amukunda urukundo rw’ukuri.


1. Iyo Aguhagararaho Mu Bihe Bikomeye.


Ubwo Kevin yarwaraga, ni bwo yabonye ukuri kwa Nadine. Bamwe mu bavugaga ko ari inshuti ze baracecetse, ariko Nadine yahoraga amuhamagara, akamubaza uko amerewe, akamusaba gufata imiti, rimwe na rimwe akamushyira ibyo kurya aho yari aryamye.

Umukobwa ugukunda by’ukuri, akwitaho mu gihe wumva utameze neza, ntakuvaho ngo kuko utari mu bihe byiza.


2. Iyo Akubaza Ibikureba.


Nadine ntiyamubazaga gusa niba ameze neza. Yaramubazaga ati: “Ni iki cyagufasha kumva utekanye?”
Yashakaga kumenya ibimubabaza, ibimushimisha n’icyatuma yisanzura.

Iyo umukobwa akwitayeho ku byo wumva n’ibyo utekereza, aba afite urukundo rwa nyarwo.


3. Iyo Atikanga Kukwereka Intege Nke.


Nadine ntiyatinye kubwira Kevin ibimutera ubwoba. Yaramubwiye ati: “Hari igihe numva ntizeye abantu, ariko wowe ndumva ngufitiye ikizere.”

Iyo umukobwa yakwemereye ko afite intege nke kandi akagusangiza ibimuremereye, aba akwizeye kandi agukunda by’ukuri.


4. Iyo Ashishikajwe no Kugufasha Gukura.


Nadine yifuzaga ko Kevin aba umuntu mwiza kurushaho. Yaramubwiraga ati: “Ndagukunda uko uri, ariko ndifuza ko waba umuntu wiyubashye kandi wizeye ejo hazaza.”

Umukobwa ugukunda by’ukuri ahora agushyigikiye, akakwifuriza iterambere.


5. Iyo Atagushyira ku Rwego rw’Abandi


Nadine ntiyamugereranyaga n’abandi. Yaravugaga ati: “Simba nshaka undi—ni wowe nshaka.”

Iyo umukobwa atagereranya uko umeze n’abandi, ahubwo akakwemera uko uri, ni ikimenyetso cy’urukundo rufite ishingiro.


Isoza: Ijambo ry’Urukundo


Ubwo Kevin yakize, yandikiye Nadine ubutumwa bugira buti:

“Wambaye hafi igihe nari ndwaye, igihe abandi bari baranshitseho. Wambereye umucyo mu mwijima. Niba ibyo bitari urukundo, sinzi icyo urukundo ari cyo.”

 


Isomo Twakuramo


Urukundo rw’ukuri ntirugaragarira mu magambo meza gusa cyangwa impano zitangaje. Rugagaragarira mu buryo umuntu akwitaho, akaguhagararaho, akagukunda uko uri kandi akagufasha gukura.

Niba umukobwa akwitaho muri ibi byose, wamenya ko agukunda urukundo rutavangiye.


Inkuru ya Kevin na Nadine irerekana byinshi ku rukundo rw’ukuri. Ese hari ikintu wakuyemo? Tanga igitekerezo cyawe – wenda ni cyo cyazafasha undi uri mu rujijo.


Izindi Nkuru Zijyanye:


Ese Umuhungu Agukunda By’Ukuri? Dore Ibimenyetso Bihamye.

Ibimenyetso by’Icyizere mu Rukundo: Uko Wamenya Ko Akugirira Icyizere.


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